The Two Greatest Impediments to a Gloriously Delectable Life

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What could actually happen if you stepped into your own sexiness and owned it? I’ll tell you what if. You’d be watching in excess of $X00,000 roll into your bank account every year, while you spend each day doing what you LOVE. No bosses. You’d be jumping out of your 1000-threadcount-Egyptian-cotton-sheet-covered-18-inch-thick-Tempurpedic-mattress-laden bed every morning because you’re so f’n excited thinking about all the fantastically interesting people you are going to be talking to that day as you wow them with your amazing talents and abilities. You’d be swinging in a hammock tied between two palm trees, swaying to a soft … Read More

Saturdays

Heather SkompThe Process of Creating a Sexy Life

saturdays

One of the most important practices to engage in – as a person who wants to lush up their daily life – is to kick back and think about the things that make us feel delightful, and for which we can be grateful in the moment. Since it is very important to focus on the positive, for the purposes of this post, I’m only going to list things that I am loving right at this moment.  They deserve a celebration.  However, I reserve the right during the period I am writing this post, to cycle downwards and add a list … Read More

Why Are the Best Guys in the World Having So Little Success With Women?

Heather SkompMen: Become Her Hero and Smoke Up Your Sex Life, Personal Relationships: Creating Jammy Romance

just-friends

I love kind guys. I don’t care what the current massive craze is about the “alpha male”, I will tell you, as an attractive, smart, educated, sexually desiring woman: the BEST GUYS IN THE WORLD are the gentle, funny, smart, sweet guys. The ones who care about women as people, as their potential best friends and sensual lovers. The guys who actually want to know a woman beyond her breast size and whether she’s got a Brazilian wax. And any woman worth her salt will tell you the same thing. So why in the name of all that is sexy, … Read More

The Superior Man is the Man Who Has the Courage to Admit He Doesn’t Know Everything

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I was having an exciting conversation with one of my coaching clients the other day, although at first he did not see it as exciting. I record all of my coaching sessions so that both my client and I can listen to the conversations again at a later time to pick up pieces that might have been missed, or notes that weren’t able to have been written, or just to be able to reflect on what was discussed for further clarity. Most of my clients love this gift, but on this day, my client was not happy. Why? Because he … Read More

The One Thing Men Can Do to Increase Their Initial Dating Success with Women

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Yep, believe it or not, there is one thing – only one – that will change everything when it comes to your ability to be successful at attracting the right women for you. Only one. So what is it? What can you do to exponentially increase the quality of the women you captivate? This is it. This is the secret: Realize that every woman you attract is a mirror of yourself in some way – good or bad. Yep, that’s it, there it is. Pretty simple, really. This concept is universal, meaning it applies both to men and to women. … Read More

25 Reasonable Qualities I’m Looking for in a Man: Confessions of a Long-Time Dater (Online and Otherwise)

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This list is the companion piece to Joshua Pompey’s article posted on November 27, 2012 in the Huffington Post. While I know his article been out for a long time, I only just read it yesterday, and I decided to write a list for all the guys out there who might be interested. I loved Joshua’s piece and thought the opposite side should be equally represented. There are a couple of things to note: I wrote this article in the context of getting to know a man in the beginning stages of dating. Most of the items that refer to … Read More

Why Much Younger Women Aren’t the Best Answer

Heather SkompMen: Become Her Hero and Smoke Up Your Sex Life, Personal Relationships: Creating Jammy Romance

younger-women

Why aren’t much younger women a good bet for you? Because they don’t want you. Yes, there are always examples of 25-year-old girls getting together and maybe even marrying 45-year-old men, but the percentage is very low: 7%. Right now, you are struggling to get ANY woman – why reduce your odds to even less than 7%? But the bigger question to ask is, why do you really want them? Well, it is my understanding, from legions of men, that you want younger women mainly for three reasons: 1. They are better looking. 2. They have less baggage and/or have … Read More